How do you do it all?
Sometimes it really floundering here runnende keep a household, take care of a little baby, time for your relationship, nice girlfriend, and also even have a nice hobby. "How do you do all that?" "Are you busy?" These are questions that I often get asked! So far it works out to combine, but I keep saying to myself that it is a temporary phase and that it will improve as Leana gets older. I realize very well that a balanced combination of work and family is something that you have to work on very hard as a couple together and that it is all very vulnerable! My hardworking independent soul mate does his best to take care of Leana in addition to his busy job and to help out where he can so that I can occasionally follow a nice evening class or make time for my aerial hoop / burlesque hobby. Our household is far from perfect. And yes, sometimes I really need time for myself and that's okay.
Real talk
I also admire the honesty and openness of many other dear super mommies, because in the end we are all very good mothers who want the best for their monsters who you love to see but would like to stick behind the wallpaper every now and then? Making yourself vulnerable and daring to admit that mother life is a lot of fun, but sometimes you also have a hard time in a world where we all have to perform, is really no shame, I have learned that recently and every mom should to…
Motherhood
That is why I really dream of a mommy world in which we are especially mum-loving to each other and in which we can be ourselves, as mommy, as a wife, as a friend, even when things are more difficult, even if we want to stick our children behind the wallpaper. Or as the gentle mothers can put it so beautifully: Be Gentle With Yourself, You are Doing The Best You Can!
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